Friday, 8 August 2014

Dear Nani

A good chi sounded my ever beaming nani's arrival home. She filled our lives in unconcivible ways with her infectious chuckle. At the crack of dawn, we would wake to her radiant smile. A  hot snack with a cup of tea teamed with some fruits would add to her delight. A simple spread was returned with heartfelt blessings. 

As her Health was restored we were witness to more episodes of her naughtiness. She would take us by surprise and burst into random Gujarati songs to avoid that walk after lunch or dinner. She would unflinchingly down everything that was served on her plate. Her seamless joy was vivid every time she tasted something sweet. Sweetness is something she took to rather literally. She consumed sweetness and what she imbued out of it was what she rippled back in the environment around her.  

A house full of people would make her very happy. The subtle C. I. D. in her would encourage her to raise questions about the missing member. Anxiety would grip her till the member did not come home. The minute she would hear us call her name she would respond with her majestic smile. 

Nani truly was an epitome of patience. She knew very well how to keep her pain from her face. Her clear aura did not even give us a hint of suffering towards the end. She peacefully parted leaving behind nostalgic memories. 

Today We celebrate her life, and are very happy to have earned the opportunity to serve her and garner those wondrous memories with a blissful soul. 

Tuesday, 11 February 2014

Apathy with Age

The posts made here are purely out of my imagination and the stories have extensively modified, and edited to create drama and entertainment. All characters and events depicted in this post are fictional, and any resemblance to persons living, dead, or fictional or situations past, present, or fictional is purely and completely coincidental.

Dear Reader, 

Please pardon my errors. I take it for granted that being human gives me the authority to err. Cannot help it! I wasn't born smart! I was naturally oblivious to the ways of this world when I was born. I am only lucky, that no one has yet robbed me off my soul. There is an unending bout of apathy around me, which is now bursting at its seams. The insouciance needs to be addressed at the earliest, because what is happening around me is WRONG! 

On a clam an uneventful Sunday evening, my telephone bell rang. The news delivered was of my ailing granny. My heart wrenched, and I wanted to reach out to her immediately. I quickly grabbed my bag, wore my shoes and scurried out of the house. I stopped suddenly! The events on last year’s day of Rakhi, brought waves of unpleasantries to my mind.

Which brother would invite his sisters on the blessed Rakhi day to be brutally flogged just to offer to keep their mother with them? Gripped by a fit of rage, my uncle with all his might beat his sisters ruthlessly, almost sounding them the death knell. The event left a lasting imprint on my mother and aunt's minds. My mothers’ patience and presence of mind reigned at the opportune moment, when on regaining her com-posture she clicked images of herself being brutally hurt in the eye by the heinous devil, in his house itself (where the event occurred). 

Shaken by the turn of the event, the sisters retired home. We urged them to complain to the police, but that would only steep problems for their beloved mother who willed to reside with her only son. A black eye, cracked rib, swollen arms and legs went unattended for days in the attempt of sparing their mother. 

My mother used social media as a tool to bring to light the brutalities she and her sisters encountered. The posts were well received initially only to fizzle out, like how a soda looses gas on opening the bottle. 

The three justice deprived daughters had given up hope on meeting their mother inspite of living just a few blocks from each other. 

The day the telephone rang delivering this unpleasant news, the girls hope of seeing their mother was renewed. The daughters were scared, but sure-footed and rushed to see her at the drop of a hat. Her diabetes was dipping. The Doctor on call was not really certain about her health. There were many grey areas that needed to be addressed. 

Situation and relation between the siblings had strained enormously after rakhi. It was on the tip of my mother's tongue to tell her brother to admit their mother to the hospital, as she did not look so well. My grannies swollen feet had another tale to tell. But my mother remained tight-lipped about the same all the time. Stating anything that would go against my uncles’ whim would cause even more friction and my granny’s health to deteriorate. The current strain in relations saw my grandfathers’ predictions of a broken family unfolding to reality. 

In the hospital a cold war continued within the sibling, uniting the sisters once again. Perhaps my uncle didn't really care about his mother. My Granny revealed startling and gut wrenching facts in her sleep. Her sub conscious mind loudly spelt of the stresses she suffered during her stay with my uncle and his wife.

Age had crippled granny, and my uncle only lusted for the money and property that my grandfather had left behind, in her name. Even in the situation of dire emergency the man left his mother alone in the hospital on the very first night of her being admitted. 

Quite unused to the new surroundings my granny panicked not find her own people around her. On learning about this the next morning the daughters took it upon them to ensure that their mother was taken care off. Also this proved that my uncle didn't seem to want her. His conversations with the doctor were dismissed with a casual air, because even the doctors knew that the sisters took care of their mother while she is still there.


Activists propagate 'Love green save green.' Only wish, they propagate the same with the appropriate rendering and connotation to the word 'green'. 

Thursday, 12 September 2013

In the name of Religion

Mankind 'ritualistically' ! 

We all know that the dynamic cultural diversity makes India what it is today. Our rich mythological past adds to the diversity and deeply rooted religious sentiments among people. From businesses to charity and everything in between before and after that pretty much happens in the name of religion. People are out  on a limb to please their Gods and Goddesses, but then what happened to BEING HUMAN.... no no guys I am not referring to the famous charitable organization started out by a renowned Bollywood celebrity, but about respecting people by and large.

I recently stumbled upon a poem penned by Roger McGough, 'Three Rusty Nails'. The poem aptly factuates intensions of a human being in the 21st century. The poem mirrors facts and tunes mankind to a pourpose of looking within themselves rather than being listless robots aimlessly sauntering in secrch of inner peace. 

What has made us who we are today? We have ruthlessly divided mankind in the name of belief. Our religion today demarcates us financially, socially and economically giving impetus to unending apathy. The rules are condemning man to assume that they are not equal in the eyes of the lord. This difference is just one of its kind. 

The economical divide is even worse. If you are not wealthy enough, you do not have the power, and hence you cannot conduct any pops religious ritual or perhaps are given the last preference for any important ritual in your place of worship. This ridiculous rule applies to people of both the higher and the lower classes.

in the name of religion we mindlessley slaughter the innocent, and rob people of emotion bliss, joy and happiness that they have endlessly prayed for over the years. Knowingly or unknowing we are robbing people of a bright future . Have we the right to rid people of their bright future just to please our Gods and Goddesses? Well perhaps consider a suggested misinterpretation on the path of mankind. 

The human mind has lost its ability to think of consequences in the long run. We think in the here and now. The future is well... Far off. 

Thursday, 29 August 2013

Understanding Them!

Penning it - The Mouthpiece? 

Allow me to introduce myself. I am Heer .P. Kothari, and based in Mumbai. I am a freelance writer, content developer and PRO. I enjoy teaching Speech and Drama, which makes me a teacher as well. I have been writing since the last 8 years now, and never thought of blogging. Just then, one day I realized I have always written what people wanted me to write, but where could I pen down my opinions and ideas? 

The Blog was the answer and that also explains the birth of PENNING IT. 

As a teacher I often wonder why parents force things down their children's gullet. Many times parents assume the role of virtual authors where they make their children models of their own ideas and thought processes. Perhaps this is the need of the hour that their children  grow onwards on the right part. Parents are visionaries of their children's future. But the question still lingers on.

 Do parents really understand their children? Or are they just mindlessly following a bandwagon? 

We are in an age where both the husband and the wife are working. Do they really find the time to tend to the interest and caliber of their children? While this is just one side of the coin the other side involves parents trying to fulfill unattended dreams of their own. 

The unending pressures on our children tire them. They are unable to give their hundred percent best even in the activities they like. Children are forced to part-take in activities that do not motivate them. Some rebels complain; find a way out and stubbornly continue doing exactly what they like. We think that they are disobeying us, But aren't we just jumping to conclusions here? We have not invested enough faith in our children. We refuse to hear their ideas out and dismiss the implementation without even comprehending their dreams. Perhaps we are not always right. Perhaps we we need to look at their ideas from a three sixty degree point of view. We ought enliven their dreams and appropriate them on a purposeful course. 

Perhaps it is necessary to spend time with them. It is high time we UNDERSTAND what they are trying to convey.